I’m over it, being sad. I ran into someone who reminded me why the grief is not necessary.
"Nostalgia is a dirty liar that makes you think the past was better than reality."
I am more at peace with my life now and happy about where I’m headed. But can I be more? Way more? I think so.
I have been catching up with a guy I dated before this last nut-job, and he is doing well. Much better than he was when we dated. Why the hell does it take a break up for them to get it together? We reminisce and if feels great to catch up. I’m not ready for anything serious though, I need to get my shit together this time around.
All I want is to buy a house. That is my first goal. :-)